A lot of people seem to think that love hurts. But that’s not true at all, love feels amazing, love is great, love is wonderful! It’s losing the love that hurts. It’s when the feeling is no longer there that’s what hurts. We are afraid of love because we know what it feels like to have it and then lose it.
Love feels like being on top of the world. It’s like having no worries no cares. It’s like feeling like you can do and conquer anything! Love makes you feel invincible, it makes you feel like everything is perfect! And when that feeling is gone, it feels like your world has ended.
It feels like you’re crashing really hard from a sugar high and yes that hurts. That hurt reminds us that the pain is greater than the love, so why risk it? That is why we don’t want to be vulnerable or eager to fall in love because if it ends or when it ends we hurt.
So no, love does not hurt, not being able to maintain that love or those strong happy feelings is what we are afraid of. So don’t be so quick to give up on love or think that love is the source of your pain, because;